Hello dear readers,

I did not make this up myself. I would not have assumed that "boyfriend" could have or would have crafted such a wonderful response to *me*.

So here it is. After I wrote to you the last time, this gem was waiting for me the next day in my inbox. (Yes, I asked permission to share it with you!)

"Hello Girlfriend v 2012

BoyFriend v 2012

Respects Girlfriend’s independent personal development, even when she doesn’t. Values all of GF, including parts of her that find him irrelevant or even distasteful.

Keeps his house clean and organized so GF feels comfortable immediately upon entry.

Enjoys time with/without GF; does not depend on GF for finding joy in life. Keeps a strong energetic connection to GF so that she feels safe & secure even if he is spending time with other women. Encourages her to spend time with other men bc he knows that he can’t be everything to her. Delights in her attraction to other men and their attraction to her – with appropriate expression thereof. Knows that GF is an incarnation of the Divine-Feminine. See all women in his woman.

Retains a realistic appraisal of sexual experience, enjoys but doesn’t need, desires without attachment, synchronizes with GF’s desires for expression; never pressures.

Is on guard for GF’s inauthenticity. Prefers real over nice; growth over stability; passion over pride. Values GF’s soul even more than her personality or physicality.

Leads by example. Loves without condition. Follows when the Source moves through her.

Values his and her connection to Spirit above all else. Does not expent the relationship to make him happy. Expects the relationship to cause him to grow, sometimes painfully – if he resists. Knows that this process will reveal the Uncaused Joy of Existence.

Let’s his personality play in the dualistic world and learn from and enjoy it while it can. Values GF experience while it lasts. Plays for Eternity; wants GF’s soul to always fondly remember this time on Earth together. When Spirit says so, lets go.

Love -FriendHusband / Boyfriend"

My musical response; cheesy, yet fun and heartfelt:

And I love the woman in the beginning looking at Money magazine. : )

I do feel lucky!

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